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I’m Lauretta Ovine Ogbum, PhD (TheActivator)

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With advanced training in Psychology, CBT, and Conflict resolution, Lauretta blends compassion with evidence-based tools to help individuals, couples and families heal, grow, and thrive. Her work is rooted in the belief that the quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationships, starting with the one we have with ourselves.

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