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Wondering if marriage counseling is for you? Do you think you don’t have enough obvious reasons to seek help and start living the married life you dreamed of as a kid? Here are some reasons why you need counseling!
Take charge of your life, get past emotional and psychological blocks and start living your best life. Every improvement and success starts with you!
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Gain a better understanding of you and your spouse-to-be. Learn to recognize and resolve relationship conflicts fast before you tie the knot. Build a solid foundation for your marriage before you start!
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The children may all be out of the nest and many anniversaries may have passed, it is not the end of bliss in your marriage! Learn new and exciting ways to rekindle the flames of love and fire up the intimacy in your marriage!
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“Guiding you to healthier connections — with yourself and others.”
With advanced training in Psychology, CBT, and Conflict resolution, Lauretta blends compassion with evidence-based tools to help individuals, couples and families heal, grow, and thrive. Her work is rooted in the belief that the quality of our lives is determined by the quality of our relationships, starting with the one we have with ourselves.
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“Through her online Life Coaching Classes, I have learnt several self-discovery elements and I have been able to learn Personality traits and skills that can improve marital bliss. Basically, I now have a new me (father and a husband), a new life and this wouldn’t have been possible without Lauretta Ogbum (The Activator). She is an extremely professional and authentic human being. I would more than recommend her classes to every individual.“
“Lauretta Ovine Ogbum is a born life coach, endowed with problem-solving skills. Her words soothe wounded souls and give them succor. My sessions with her have spurred me to overcome some personal limitations I had during my early career. I can’t share my success story without mentioning her name.”
“It was time for us to marry, hopelessly in love and without a care in this world. But looking back now after 4 months in marriage, we are grateful to The Activator for all the valuable lessons she taught during our pre-marital counseling. She showed us common traps like how to take care of internal and external pressures in our relationship and we applied her timeless advice which has saved us a lot of trouble so far!”
Behind every success story is Lauretta Ovine Ogbum, PhD — The Activator. With her deep expertise as a Relationship Coach, Therapist, and Psychologist, she has guided countless individuals and couples toward lasting transformation. Her passion, proven strategies, and compassionate approach are the reason our clients’ testimonies speak with so much power
Every October, as the world marks Mental Health Awareness Month, I am reminded of how many people still whisper about mental health, as if it is something to be ashamed of. In therapy sessions, online comments, and even church conversations, I still hear myths that keep people suffering in silence. Let’s talk about a few […]
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Chika sat at the dinner table, scrolling through her phone. Her husband, Bayo, was a few feet away, watching TV. They had eaten in silence ……again. No fight. No anger. Just… nothing. She tried to remember the last time they laughed together. The last time they hugged for more than a second. The last time […]
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